Growing up, I was a shy, quiet, nerdy little dude with pimples. And for some reason, as scrawny as I was as a kid, I insisted on wearing extra-large t-shirts. My mojo was, you could say, not that strong. As if that wasn’t enough, I also picked up a couple of habits that helped me [...]
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In 4th grade, I was the only kid on my block that had this new thing called video games. A wicked fast Atari 800XL with stunning graphics. It gave a reason for friends come over to hang out with me. In 7th grade, I would bring huge bags of Jolly Ranchers to keep in my [...]
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For years, I put women on a pedestal. Then I started realizing I’m pretty cool. So many times I thought the woman was awesome, which often times was true. (Other times, I quickly learned it was a total projection.) I would get so caught up in how great she was that I would forget that I’m pretty [...]
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As a dating/relating coach, facilitator and blogger, I get asked a lot by guys what are some ways they can have better connections with women? After doing a five-month training in circling facilitation in San Francisco, I’ve been powerfully reminded at how powerful some simple elements can be in establishing connection. Here are four big [...]
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Let’s say I want to go to on a safari in Kenya. It would be total sweetness for me to take a non-stop flight from Washington, DC straight onto a little landing strip next to my safari hut. But there isn’t. And the reality is, so what? The only question is: Where am I and [...]
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We all hear it. ”I like guys who make more than $100K per year.” “I only date Latinas with big butts.” “If she doesn’t love to run marathons, then I can’t date her.” In my previous post, I talked about what happens when we focus on how our next man or woman is going to come to us. This [...]
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A few years back, before I went out on the town, I would sometimes think to myself “Tonight is the night I’m gonna find love!” And four hours later, as I walked back to my apartment alone with a bag of Doritos and a Big Gulp, I realized that tonight wasn’t the night. Who declared [...]
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Music is energy. Our moods are energy. One of the BEST and QUICKEST ways to amp up your vibe is to put on song you love. I know countless times when a song has helped lift me out of a funk or jazzed me up before I head out the door on a date. You [...]
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One of the main reasons people want to get physically fit or buy new clothes is to feel and look sexier. But it’s not guaranteed. Perhaps you’ve had this experience. You wear an outfit that you feel really good in, where you feel you could walk in to any room and approach any person you [...]
