I get overwhelmed easily. All my life I’ve constantly sought out information and then broken it down into simpler, easy to digest chunks. So I wondered if the same could be applied to dating. There are a lot of great tips and strategies out there on how to meet someone, much of which I agree with, [...]
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Take a look at your Twitter or Facebook streams and you might think all of your friends are elephant riding in Thailand or getting back from kick-ass workouts with their personal trainers. Blogs and social media sites can sometimes give the impression of all your friends are living perfect and eternally happy lives, always doing cool things. Or [...]
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Are you God? A fortune teller? Can you predict the future? Personally, I can’t predict the future. But my mind thinks it can. Or at least it thinks it can predict what the future (and my life) should look like. It even passes judgment on what my past should have looked like. Of course, my mind also loves to tell [...]
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Why do guys think the grass is always greener with other women?
Posted on 28. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
This is a guest post I wrote for SingleTease.com, a great company that creates fun conversation starters for singles! We are so excited to have Jeffrey Platts as our guest blogger! I met Jeffrey three years ago at a yoga retreat. You could tell he was a guy who led a balanced life. His perspective and insight [...]
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This is a guest post I wrote for Ask Miss Alpha, a dating blogger that’s fun, sexy and fearless in her approach to life and dating. Today’s guest post is from one of my (okay my very) favorite dudedatingblogger Jeffrey Platts. He shares a lot of the sexual philosophies touted here and is also becoming [...]
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Spring is here. Nine of your friends are getting married in June. You’ve had way too many first dates pick their nose and/or fart in the past two months. Your last five online dates have simply fizzled for no apparent reason. So it’s fair to say your current vibe about dating isn’t exactly positive. Whatever [...]
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Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman. Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose. But also factor into the mix that you need to be authentic and present in each moment. You had a bad day at work and your [...]
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“He doesn’t deserve to be dating a hot woman like that. She’s way out of his league.” “Ugh, just look at them, laughing and holding hands. Get a room, you two!” Jealous: adj. painfully desirous of another’s advantages Ever experienced this situation, as I have? You’re single, you really want to have a partner, someone [...]
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47 ways to please your man with your elbow! 12 tips to give her earth-shaking orgasms with your baseball card collection! There are countless books and Cosmo articles on how to learn the most cutting-edge techniques to please your partner sexually. They all have great information and most of the time the tips are very [...]
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This blog took a long time to happen. Or rather let’s say, the actual implementation of it literally took only a day. (Big thanks to David Henry and WooThemes.) The “long time” part happened because I was letting my mind’s bullshit thoughts run the show on whether to do it or not. What bullshit thoughts [...]
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Have you ever had a woman say “You’re not even listening to me!!!” If you say no, then you’re probably lying. Unless the Dalai Lama is reading this blog. I know I’ve had (and still have) my fair share of moments with women where I was “checked out” and she definitely felt the impact of that. As did I. When [...]
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Do you ever find yourself seeking someone’s approval? Or trying to “prove your worth” to someone you really like (or maybe even don’t like)? I know I’ve had my moments. Well, check this out right here: When you try to “prove” something, you are implying that it’s currently not true. I don’t see any scientists out [...]
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A shift in perspective is a powerful thing. Every now and then I’ll hear someone complain about being single. Usually a story about how they’re some kind of social pariah or less of a person because they’re still single while all their friends are getting married and popping out babies. I’ve heard it from both women and [...]
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What’s your dating story? “Men are pigs.” “All women are crazy.” “Guys don’t want to date older women like me.” “That girl is out of my league.” The thoughts we think will create the lens through which we view the world. If I see the world as a happy and hopeful place, then I will [...]
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Do you have traits that you feel bad about? Are you bald? Have a Megan Fox thumb? Rocking out with a beer belly? Tell corny jokes? Can’t dance for crap? Small boobs? Big boobs? I’ll tell you right now that for every so-called “fault” or “defect” you think you may have, there is someone out [...]
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Is dating a numbers game? Is it really about just going out and dating tons of people until you find a match? If that’s your approach, and it feels good and true to you, then keep on truckin’. If, however, you’re having some frustration or lack of success with that approach, then I invite you to [...]
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As mentioned in the A fun new way to meet singles in DC! Women = SOLD OUT Men = SOLD OUT Scroll down to get your ticket today & reserve your spot! Hosted by Jeffrey Platts Held at Tabaq New York, San Fran, LA and now DC! Can’t Take My Eyes Off of You… Do [...]
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500 Dates of Bummer
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Guys, open your heart AND your mouth
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Taking off my social media mask
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Stop apologizing for who you are.
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Can NOT dating improve your dating?
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