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I am passionate about helping men and women connect more deeply and authentically, both in dating and in life.  After years of being the go-to guy for my men and women friends for their questions on dating, love and sex, I now help others turn up the volume on their natural essence and attract more fulfilling relating experiences.

I believe that everyone, no matter who they are, has their own natural mojo and is the creator of their own reality. The trick is that many of us pick up thoughts and habits that block our most natural, attractive essence. I’m also dedicated to spreading authenticity not just in the dating world, but to ALL relating, from the barista at Starbucks to your coworker.

My typical clients include everyday smart men and women who are interested in self-awareness and shifting their perspective of themselves, dating and love. My philosophy is not based on tricks or complex theories, but on solid practices and mindsets that get to the core of what makes you most attractive and approachable. I reach clients from all angles — practical, spiritual, emotional, mental – to help them take off the masks we all wear that might be keeping from real, deep authentic connections.

I encourage and support my clients to become devout students of themselves, expanding their awareness of their thoughts, habits and beliefs.  My own passion for studying and teaching deeper connections stemmed from the desire to expand beyond my own challenges with socializing and dating. And I integrate those personal experiences in the ups and downs of connecting into my coaching and writing.

Over the years, I’ve been influenced by a range of teachers and workshops on personal growth, dating and relating, including David Deida, Authentic World, Susan Campbell, Red Pill Weekend, Dr. Robert Glover, Rev. Michael Beckwith, Jerry & Esther Hicks, Byron Katie, Debbie Ford and Cheri Huber. I recently completed a five-month Circling training with Authentic World.

If you’re in the D.C. area, come check out Authentic Relating Game Nights and Circling events for a visceral experience of authentic connection. My eye gazing parties in D.C. have been featured in the Washington Post and I’ve been interviewed on The Dating Marketplace with Nic & Neely on Unregular Radio. My blog posts and expertise have been featured on Elephant Journal, The Urban Dater, Single Tease, Simone Grant, Nandoism.com, and Date Daily.

A D.C. resident for over 17 years, I’ve has worked at the Embassy of Brazil, an international Internet start-up, a nonprofit dance and arts organizations, and more recently, graphic design, DJing and teaching yoga.

While based in Washington, D.C., I work with clients from all over the world via phone and Skype. As a Brazilian-American, I also help Portuguese-speaking clients. Find out more about coaching and schedule a complimentary coaching session here.

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Twitter.com/jeffreyplatts
Facebook.com/jeffreyadrianplatts
202.681.9499

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