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You are a flavor.
Posted on12. Aug, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
You are a flavor. Some people will find you absolutely delicious and others will find you totally repugnant. And that is a GOOD thing. You want people to like you for the flavor that you are. And you want people to not like you for the flavor that you are. If you’re strawberry and you’re [...]
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Dating in 3 simple steps
Posted on20. Jul, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
I get overwhelmed easily. All my life I’ve constantly sought out information and then broken it down into simpler, easy to digest chunks. So I wondered if the same could be applied to dating. There are a lot of great tips and strategies out there on how to meet someone, much of which I agree with, [...]
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Taking off my social media mask
Posted on24. Jun, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Take a look at your Twitter or Facebook streams and you might think all of your friends are elephant riding in Thailand or getting back from kick-ass workouts with their personal trainers. Blogs and social media sites can sometimes give the impression of all your friends are living perfect and eternally happy lives, always doing cool things. Or [...]
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Are you living in a prison of shoulds?
Posted on07. Jun, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you God? A fortune teller? Can you predict the future? Personally, I can’t predict the future. But my mind thinks it can. Or at least it thinks it can predict what the future (and my life) should look like. It even passes judgment on what my past should have looked like. Of course, my mind also loves to tell [...]
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Why do guys think the grass is always greener with other women?
Posted on28. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
This is a guest post I wrote for SingleTease.com, a great company that creates fun conversation starters for singles! We are so excited to have Jeffrey Platts as our guest blogger! I met Jeffrey three years ago at a yoga retreat. You could tell he was a guy who led a balanced life. His perspective and insight [...]
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Microwave sex or boiling water sex
Posted on25. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
This is a guest post I wrote for Ask Miss Alpha, a dating blogger that’s fun, sexy and fearless in her approach to life and dating. Today’s guest post is from one of my (okay my very) favorite dudedatingblogger Jeffrey Platts. He shares a lot of the sexual philosophies touted here and is also becoming [...]
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Eye Gazing Party! Wed/May/19 at Tabaq Bistro
Posted on16. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
As mentioned in the A fun new way to meet singles in DC! Women = SOLD OUT Men = SOLD OUT Scroll down to get your ticket today & reserve your spot! Hosted by Jeffrey Platts Held at Tabaq New York, San Fran, LA and now DC! Can’t Take My Eyes Off of You… Do [...]
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Can NOT dating improve your dating?
Posted on13. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Spring is here. Nine of your friends are getting married in June. You’ve had way too many first dates pick their nose and/or fart in the past two months. Your last five online dates have simply fizzled for no apparent reason. So it’s fair to say your current vibe about dating isn’t exactly positive. Whatever [...]
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Guys, open your heart AND your mouth
Posted on30. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman. Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose. But also factor into the mix that you need to be authentic and present in each moment. You had a bad day at work and your [...]
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Does your jealousy keep you single?
Posted on25. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
“He doesn’t deserve to be dating a hot woman like that. She’s way out of his league.” “Ugh, just look at them, laughing and holding hands. Get a room, you two!” Jealous: adj. painfully desirous of another’s advantages Ever experienced this situation, as I have? You’re single, you really want to have a partner, someone [...]

