10 Ways To Destroy Your Mojo

Posted on10. Jan, 2012 by Jeffrey Platts.

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Growing up, I was a shy, quiet, nerdy little dude with pimples. And for some reason, as scrawny as I was as a kid, I insisted on wearing extra-large t-shirts. My mojo was, you could say, not that strong. As if that wasn’t enough, I also picked up a couple of habits that helped me [...]

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I am lovable as I am. (So are you.)

Posted on14. Dec, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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In 4th grade, I was the only kid on my block that had this new thing called video games. A wicked fast Atari 800XL with stunning graphics. It gave a reason for friends come over to hang out with me. In 7th grade, I would bring huge bags of Jolly Ranchers to keep in my [...]

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Are You An Appreciation Junkie?

Posted on20. Nov, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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For years, I put women on a pedestal. Then I started realizing I’m pretty cool. So many times I thought the woman was awesome, which often times was true. (Other times, I quickly learned it was a total projection.) I would get so caught up in how great she was that I would forget that I’m pretty [...]

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4 Tips For Creating Juicier Connections With Women (And Anyone)

Posted on14. Nov, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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As a dating/relating coach, facilitator and blogger, I get asked a lot by guys what are some ways they can have better connections with women? After doing a five-month training in circling facilitation in San Francisco, I’ve been powerfully reminded at how powerful some simple elements can be in establishing connection. Here are four big [...]

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Do You Give Up Too Easily?

Posted on08. Nov, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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Let’s say I want to go to on a safari in Kenya. It would be total sweetness for me to take a non-stop flight from Washington, DC straight onto a little landing strip next to my safari hut. But there isn’t. And the reality is, so what? The only question is: Where am I and [...]

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Is Your Dating Fantasy Your Prison?

Posted on15. Oct, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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We all hear it. ”I like guys who make more than $100K per year.” “I only date Latinas with big butts.” “If she doesn’t love to run marathons, then I can’t date her.” In my previous post, I talked about what happens when we focus on how our next man or woman is going to come to us. This [...]

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Authentic Relating Game Night – Sat/Oct/15

Posted on25. Sep, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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Bring your partner, friend or come solo! “Even if you’ve known someone for years, this is an opportunity to share and be seen in new ways…” Are you tired of spending too much money in loud bars with unfulfilling conversations that lack spark or connection? Do you crave a space where you can talk about [...]

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Are You The Dating Weatherman?

Posted on15. Sep, 2011 by Jeffrey Platts.

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A few years back, before I went out on the town, I would sometimes think to myself “Tonight is the night I’m gonna find love!” And four hours later, as I walked back to my apartment alone with a bag of Doritos and a Big Gulp, I realized that tonight wasn’t the night. Who declared [...]

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