Archive for 'Dating'
4 Tips For Creating Juicier Connections With Women (And Anyone)
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
As a dating/relating coach, facilitator and blogger, I get asked a lot by guys what are some ways they can have better connections with women? After doing a five-month training in circling facilitation in San Francisco, I’ve been powerfully reminded at how powerful some simple elements can be in establishing connection. Here are four big [...]
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Is Your Dating Fantasy Your Prison?
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
We all hear it. ”I like guys who make more than $100K per year.” “I only date Latinas with big butts.” “If she doesn’t love to run marathons, then I can’t date her.” In my previous post, I talked about what happens when we focus on how our next man or woman is going to come to us. This [...]
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Are You The Dating Weatherman?
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
A few years back, before I went out on the town, I would sometimes think to myself “Tonight is the night I’m gonna find love!” And four hours later, as I walked back to my apartment alone with a bag of Doritos and a Big Gulp, I realized that tonight wasn’t the night. Who declared [...]
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17 Songs To Boost Your Mojo
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Music is energy. Our moods are energy. One of the BEST and QUICKEST ways to amp up your vibe is to put on song you love. I know countless times when a song has helped lift me out of a funk or jazzed me up before I head out the door on a date. You [...]
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Why Happy Is Sexy
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
One of the main reasons people want to get physically fit or buy new clothes is to feel and look sexier. But it’s not guaranteed. Perhaps you’ve had this experience. You wear an outfit that you feel really good in, where you feel you could walk in to any room and approach any person you [...]
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Maybe They ARE That Into You
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
There are too many times to even bother counting. “She was only talking to me because she was bored while she waited for her friends.” “The only reason she hooked up with me is because I’m American, and I stand out here in Brazil.” “If I didn’t dance well, she wouldn’t be interested in me.” [...]
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Wanna Find Love? Let Go Of The Banana
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you keeping a few friends or acquaintances on your radar as potential hookups or relationship material? Is your ex on your backup list? Are you still pining over your college crush? Well, if you want a new relationship, you’ve got to cut them loose. If that cute friend you secretly have the hots for [...]
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You Are A Flavor
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
You are a flavor. Some people will find you absolutely delicious and others will find you totally repugnant. And that is a GOOD thing. You want people to like you for the flavor that you are. And you want people to not like you for the flavor that you are. If you’re strawberry and you’re [...]



