Work With Me

If you’re on this page, then you probably want to improve your dating life in some way. Maybe you know you’re a catch, but you just aren’t meeting the right people. Perhaps you need a mental reboot so that dating feels fun again. Or you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while and you need a little support getting back in the game.

And perhaps you’ve already been looking for some insights. Weekend seminars, books and conversations with friends are all valuable and powerful tools for transformation. Yet coaching is unique because it is personal. It’s tailored to you and your specific mindsets, challenges and goals.


The Coaching Relationship

My role as a coach is to:

  1. Help you get clear on what you really want
  2. Deal with whatever might be getting in the way
  3. Create tools, beliefs and practices that help you be and EXPRESS your most attractive and authentic self.

“Rather than approaching personal growth as “self improvement” and “getting fixed” or “making better”, what if you approached those rituals and remedies as ways of getting to your power?” – Danielle LaPorte

That’s what coaching is about – getting you to your power. We all get knocked off balance. We all lose perspective every once in a while. We all have moments and days when we lack confidence. But you already have powerful wisdom inside you. My role as a coach is not to spoon feed you answers, but to help you empower you, so you develop your own tools, insights and practices.

Whatever your dating goals (better dates, more confidence, a life partner), the intention is for you to feel good about who you are and excited about where you are going so that you attract different results.

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The Philosophy

My coaching approach is based on five main foundations:

  1. No one is broken or needs fixing.
  2. You have your own natural mojo.
  3. You create your reality.
  4. Dating is fun.
  5. Everything is energy.

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What We’ll Look At

Over the course of our coaching sessions, we’ll take a look at some things that might be getting in the way of your being your most authentic, most attractive self. Some areas will include:

  • What’s already working.
  • Defining what your dating goals are. There is no cookie-cutter mold for what you want or how to get there.
  • Finding and shifting anything you’re doing (habits or thoughts) that might be getting in the way.
  • Who you’re being (your beliefs about yourself, life, love, dating).
  • What kind of partner you are looking for (not your parents, friends or society).
  • How to bring your most authentic and attractive self to your dates.
  • Really, truly knowing how badass you already are.
  • How to design your lifestyle to support you in meeting new people easily.
  • How to be more present in your body when meeting people.
  • How to really listen to other people so that you create deeper connections.
  • Develop strategies to help you feel confident and inspired during the natural ups and downs of dating.
  • How you can (and should) love your life as it is now, without a partner.
  • How transparency and authenticity will attract the right partner sooner.
  • What ways you can get the Universe to help you out.
  • Explore the non-dating areas of your lifestyle (diet, self-care, finances, family, friends, work) so they are all in alignment with the dating lifestyle you want. Everything is connected.
  • How to be the partner you want to find.
  • Keeping it simple. We won’t be getting lost in theories and excuses. (This doesn’t mean it will always be easy and comfortable.)

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How It Works

First step is getting to know each other. Hiring a dating coach is a very personal choice, so use your intuition when hiring one. To see if coaching is right for you, I offer a no-obligation, complimentary 30-minute phone consultation and strategy session..

Our sessions are generally held weekly (via Skype or phone) at a time and day that’s convenient for you. So you can live anywhere and receive the benefits of coaching.  All you need is phone or Internet access.  In person coaching is also available in the Washington, DC Metro area.

In between our calls, you can also email me to ask questions, share wins and ask for support. Brief, occasional, unscheduled phone contact is also included in our coaching relationship.  All sessions are confidential to allow you to explore yourself as deeply as possible for significant change to take place. My goal is make sure you feel supported during the entire process.

Keep in mind that coaching is a process, not a quick fix, so a longer time frame of two to three months allows us to really create momentum and make progress in the areas that you’ve decided to focus on. In the end, this is all about YOU and what you want to experience. My biggest expectation is for you to demand value. I am here to support YOU.

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Are You Ready for Coaching?

  • You want more fulfilling social interactions that go beyond the superficial small talk.
  • You are frustrated with how your dating life is going.
  • You want to take responsibility for your dating and love life.
  • You keep attracting the wrong type of man or woman.
  • You’re tired of people not calling you back.
  • You want to have more FUN in your dating life.
  • You are ready to take responsibility for changing your dating life.
  • You want new possibilities in your dating relationships.
  • You are sick of playing games and thinking you have to be/look/act a certain way in order to find love.
  • You want support in being more authentically you.
  • You are ready to take an honest look at yourself and shift any habits and beliefs that are no longer serving you.
  • You want to feel more confident around the people you’re attracted to.


Take action today and click here sign up for your complimentary & confidential 30 minute coaching call and strategy session.

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