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Comment on 10 Ways To Destroy Your Mojo by Authentic Online Dating Tips for Men

Authentic Online Dating Tips for Men — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:45:25 +0000

Of all these dating tips for men, “find as many ways to check out as you can,” really stood out to me. This is because I think that a lot of people sabotage themselves this way, without even being aware of it. It’s hard to change yourself. When faced with having to confront your inner demons, or having to do a little extra work on yourself, or anything that your ego doesn’t like, your mind searches for the first opportunity to disengage. And in the 20 first century, there are plenty of distractions out there. This could be surfing the web, watching TV or eating junk food, but it could also be talking in class because the lesson’s too hard, or joking with your coworkers about how much work sucks instead of trying to move on with your life. Thanks for the post, Jeffrey. – Elliott

Comment on I am lovable as I am. (So are you.) by Stef (City Girl)

Stef (City Girl) — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 17:22:30 +0000

Great post and great reminders! I was hooked on my Atari from the 3rd-5th grades. Wish I had known you back then. xoxo

Comment on Are You An Appreciation Junkie? by Susie Kline

Susie Kline — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 01:45:52 +0000

Such a great message! Thanks for writing this!

Comment on Circling by 6 Ways to Create Juicier Connections With Women — The Good Men Project

6 Ways to Create Juicier Connections With Women — The Good Men Project — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 20:28:21 +0000

[...] as a life and authentic relating coach, circling facilitator and writer, I get asked a lot by guys on how they can have better connections with [...]

Comment on Why Happy Is Sexy by Jeffrey Platts

Jeffrey Platts — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 06:30:13 +0000

@singlemuch: Yeah, posture is awesome. Women that look like Eeyore aren’t attractive.

Comment on Why Happy Is Sexy by Single Much

Single Much — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 05:46:20 +0000

Thanks for the tips! It’s funny because I totally notice the body language thing. My posture alone can make me feel sexier. All I need to do is stand up straight! I think I always felt like my perfect posture made me look like a snob or something. Turns out it doesn’t.

Comment on I am lovable as I am. (So are you.) by Jeffrey Platts

Jeffrey Platts — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 04:23:18 +0000

Thanks, TIa!

Melzie, yeah, it’s always good to be reminded of. Thanks for your share!

Valeu, Flor!

Comment on I am lovable as I am. (So are you.) by Flor

Flor — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 02:07:35 +0000

Vc eh incrivel! Beijos de Pirassununga!

Comment on Do You Give Up Too Easily? by Laura Biagini

Laura Biagini — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 04:51:16 +0000

Love this post! I just wish I had read it last week before I went and shut an opportunity down just because it wasn’t happening as easily as I would have liked. But better late than never! x

Comment on I am lovable as I am. (So are you.) by Melzie

Melzie — Sat, 17 Dec 2011 19:47:45 +0000

Jeffrey, your big takeaway is something I know deep inside and realize, while deeply personal on a level, is not what’s missing….the receiving part is something I need to work on. This is very valuable post !