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Are You An Appreciation Junkie?
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
For years, I put women on a pedestal. Then I started realizing I’m pretty cool. So many times I thought the woman was awesome, which often times was true. (Other times, I quickly learned it was a total projection.) I would get so caught up in how great she was that I would forget that I’m pretty [...]
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4 Tips For Creating Juicier Connections With Women (And Anyone)
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
As a dating/relating coach, facilitator and blogger, I get asked a lot by guys what are some ways they can have better connections with women? After doing a five-month training in circling facilitation in San Francisco, I’ve been powerfully reminded at how powerful some simple elements can be in establishing connection. Here are four big [...]
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Maybe They ARE That Into You
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
There are too many times to even bother counting. “She was only talking to me because she was bored while she waited for her friends.” “The only reason she hooked up with me is because I’m American, and I stand out here in Brazil.” “If I didn’t dance well, she wouldn’t be interested in me.” [...]
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Why Regardless Is A Powerful Word
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
When left unobserved, my mind can play tricks on me. The biggest trick it plays is the one where it makes me believe the lame excuses of why my future is limited or why my current reality won’t ever change. One thing I’ve been playing with lately is the word regardless. re·gard·less Adverb: Without paying attention [...]
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Wanna Find Love? Let Go Of The Banana
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you keeping a few friends or acquaintances on your radar as potential hookups or relationship material? Is your ex on your backup list? Are you still pining over your college crush? Well, if you want a new relationship, you’ve got to cut them loose. If that cute friend you secretly have the hots for [...]
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You Are A Flavor
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
You are a flavor. Some people will find you absolutely delicious and others will find you totally repugnant. And that is a GOOD thing. You want people to like you for the flavor that you are. And you want people to not like you for the flavor that you are. If you’re strawberry and you’re [...]
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Dating In 3 Simple Steps
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
I get overwhelmed easily. All my life I’ve constantly sought out information and then broken it down into simpler, easy to digest chunks. So I wondered if the same could be applied to dating. There are a lot of great tips and strategies out there on how to meet someone, much of which I agree with, [...]
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Taking Off My Social Media Mask
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Take a look at your Twitter or Facebook streams and you might think all of your friends are elephant riding in Thailand or getting back from kick-ass workouts with their personal trainers. Blogs and social media sites can sometimes give the impression of all your friends are living perfect and eternally happy lives, always doing [...]
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