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Maybe They ARE That Into You

Maybe They ARE That Into You

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There are too many times to even bother counting. “She was only talking to me because she was bored while she waited for her friends.” “The only reason she hooked up with me is because I’m American, and I stand out here in Brazil.” “If I didn’t dance well, she wouldn’t be interested in me.” [...]

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Why Regardless Is A Powerful Word

Why Regardless Is A Powerful Word

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When left unobserved, my mind can play tricks on me.  The biggest trick it plays is the one where it makes me believe the lame excuses of why my future is limited or why my current reality won’t ever change.  One thing I’ve been playing with lately is the word regardless. re·gard·less Adverb: Without paying attention [...]

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Wanna Find Love? Let Go Of The Banana

Wanna Find Love? Let Go Of The Banana

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Are you keeping a few friends or acquaintances on your radar as potential hookups or relationship material? Is your ex on your backup list? Are you still pining over your college crush? Well, if you want a new relationship, you’ve got to cut them loose. If that cute friend you secretly have the hots for [...]

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You Are A Flavor

You Are A Flavor

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You are a flavor. Some people will find you absolutely delicious and others will find you totally repugnant. And that is a GOOD thing. You want people to like you for the flavor that you are.  And you want people to not like you for the flavor that you are.  If you’re strawberry and you’re [...]

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Dating In 3 Simple Steps

Dating In 3 Simple Steps

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I get overwhelmed easily.  All my life I’ve constantly sought out information and then broken it down into simpler, easy to digest chunks.  So I wondered if the same could be applied to dating.  There are a lot of great tips and strategies out there on how to meet someone, much of which I agree with, [...]

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Can NOT Dating Improve Your Dating?

Can NOT Dating Improve Your Dating?

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Spring is here. Nine of your friends are getting married in June. You’ve had way too many first dates pick their nose and/or fart in the past two months. Your last five online dates have simply fizzled for no apparent reason. So it’s fair to say your current vibe about dating isn’t exactly positive. Whatever [...]

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Is Your Dating Story Serving You?

Is Your Dating Story Serving You?

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What’s your dating story? “Men are pigs.” “All women are crazy.” “Guys don’t want to date older women like me.” “That girl is out of my league.” The thoughts we think will create the lens through which we view the world. If I see the world as a happy and hopeful place, then I will [...]

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Your Soulmate WANTS You To Be Single

Your Soulmate WANTS You To Be Single

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A shift in perspective is a powerful thing. Every now and then I’ll hear someone complain about being single. Usually a story about how they’re some kind of social pariah or less of a person because they’re still single while all their friends are getting married and popping out babies. I’ve heard it from both [...]

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