Tag Archives: presence
Are you living in a prison of shoulds?
Posted on07. Jun, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you God? A fortune teller? Can you predict the future? Personally, I can’t predict the future. But my mind thinks it can. Or at least it thinks it can predict what the future (and my life) should look like. It even passes judgment on what my past should have looked like. Of course, my mind also loves to tell [...]
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Microwave sex or boiling water sex
Posted on25. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
This is a guest post I wrote for Ask Miss Alpha, a dating blogger that’s fun, sexy and fearless in her approach to life and dating. Today’s guest post is from one of my (okay my very) favorite dudedatingblogger Jeffrey Platts. He shares a lot of the sexual philosophies touted here and is also becoming [...]
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Guys, open your heart AND your mouth
Posted on30. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman. Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose. But also factor into the mix that you need to be authentic and present in each moment. You had a bad day at work and your [...]
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You already know how to be a great lover.
Posted on18. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
47 ways to please your man with your elbow! 12 tips to give her earth-shaking orgasms with your baseball card collection! There are countless books and Cosmo articles on how to learn the most cutting-edge techniques to please your partner sexually. They all have great information and most of the time the tips are very [...]
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Guys, get out of your heads!
Posted on15. Jan, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Have you ever had a woman say “You’re not even listening to me!!!” If you say no, then you’re probably lying. Unless the Dalai Lama is reading this blog. I know I’ve had (and still have) my fair share of moments with women where I was “checked out” and she definitely felt the impact of that. As did I. When [...]

