Tag Archives: presence
4 Tips For Creating Juicier Connections With Women (And Anyone)
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
As a dating/relating coach, facilitator and blogger, I get asked a lot by guys what are some ways they can have better connections with women? After doing a five-month training in circling facilitation in San Francisco, I’ve been powerfully reminded at how powerful some simple elements can be in establishing connection. Here are four big [...]
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Why Happy Is Sexy
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
One of the main reasons people want to get physically fit or buy new clothes is to feel and look sexier. But it’s not guaranteed. Perhaps you’ve had this experience. You wear an outfit that you feel really good in, where you feel you could walk in to any room and approach any person you [...]
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Taking Off My Social Media Mask
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Take a look at your Twitter or Facebook streams and you might think all of your friends are elephant riding in Thailand or getting back from kick-ass workouts with their personal trainers. Blogs and social media sites can sometimes give the impression of all your friends are living perfect and eternally happy lives, always doing [...]
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Are You Living In A Prison Of Shoulds?
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you God? A fortune teller? Can you predict the future? Personally, I can’t predict the future. But my mind thinks it can. Or at least it thinks it can predict what the future (and my life) should look like. It even passes judgment on what my past should have looked like. Of course, my mind also loves to tell [...]
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Why A Man Needs To Open His Heart AND His Mouth
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman. Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose. But also factor into the mix that you need to be authentic and present in each moment. You had a bad day at work and your [...]
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You Already Know How To Be A Great Lover
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
47 ways to please your man with your elbow! 12 tips to give her earth-shaking orgasms with your baseball card collection! There are countless books and Cosmo articles on how to learn the most cutting-edge techniques to please your partner sexually. They all have great information and most of the time the tips are very [...]
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Guys, get out of your heads!
Posted on by Jeffrey Platts.
Have you ever had a woman say “You’re not even listening to me!!!” If you say no, then you’re probably lying. Unless the Dalai Lama is reading this blog. I know I’ve had (and still have) my fair share of moments with women where I was “checked out” and she definitely felt the impact of that. As did I. When [...]



