Tag Archives: self-acceptance
Are you living in a prison of shoulds?
Posted on07. Jun, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Are you God? A fortune teller? Can you predict the future? Personally, I can’t predict the future. But my mind thinks it can. Or at least it thinks it can predict what the future (and my life) should look like. It even passes judgment on what my past should have looked like. Of course, my mind also loves to tell [...]
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Microwave sex or boiling water sex
Posted on25. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
This is a guest post I wrote for Ask Miss Alpha, a dating blogger that’s fun, sexy and fearless in her approach to life and dating. Today’s guest post is from one of my (okay my very) favorite dudedatingblogger Jeffrey Platts. He shares a lot of the sexual philosophies touted here and is also becoming [...]
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Can NOT dating improve your dating?
Posted on13. Apr, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Spring is here. Nine of your friends are getting married in June. You’ve had way too many first dates pick their nose and/or fart in the past two months. Your last five online dates have simply fizzled for no apparent reason. So it’s fair to say your current vibe about dating isn’t exactly positive. Whatever [...]
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Guys, open your heart AND your mouth
Posted on30. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Guys, let go of the b.s. notion that you need to act tough and stoic all the time around your woman. Yes, overall, it’s good to be a strong, grounded man of purpose. But also factor into the mix that you need to be authentic and present in each moment. You had a bad day at work and your [...]
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Does your jealousy keep you single?
Posted on25. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
“He doesn’t deserve to be dating a hot woman like that. She’s way out of his league.” “Ugh, just look at them, laughing and holding hands. Get a room, you two!” Jealous: adj. painfully desirous of another’s advantages Ever experienced this situation, as I have? You’re single, you really want to have a partner, someone [...]
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You already know how to be a great lover.
Posted on18. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
47 ways to please your man with your elbow! 12 tips to give her earth-shaking orgasms with your baseball card collection! There are countless books and Cosmo articles on how to learn the most cutting-edge techniques to please your partner sexually. They all have great information and most of the time the tips are very [...]
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500 Dates of Bummer
Posted on10. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Is dating a numbers game? Is it really about just going out and dating tons of people until you find a match? If that’s your approach, and it feels good and true to you, then keep on truckin’. If, however, you’re having some frustration or lack of success with that approach, then I invite you to [...]
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Stop apologizing for who you are.
Posted on04. Mar, 2010 by Jeffrey Platts.
Do you have traits that you feel bad about? Are you bald? Have a Megan Fox thumb? Rocking out with a beer belly? Tell corny jokes? Can’t dance for crap? Small boobs? Big boobs? I’ll tell you right now that for every so-called “fault” or “defect” you think you may have, there is someone out [...]
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